Why I Still Get Nervous – 19 Years Later
You’d think that after 19 years of presenting — after all the workshops, full days lecturing, away days, and training sessions — the nerves would have faded by now. But they haven’t.
Every single time I step into a room to deliver a session, I still feel it. The flutter in my stomach. The racing thoughts. The inner voice is checking and re-checking everything I’ve prepared.
And do you know what? I’ve come to realise something important:
I get nervous because I care.
It’s Not Just a Session — It’s Someone’s Investment
Long before I stand in front of an audience, I’ve spent hours, often days, immersed in preparation. I’m not just planning slides and talking points — I’m in deep consultation with the client. I’m learning about their challenges, goals, team dynamics, and dreams for the day, as well as their aspirations for growth thereafter.
Because to me, this isn’t just about turning up and delivering something that sounds good. It’s about crafting something meaningful. Something that motivates. Something that matters.
I Want It to Land — Really Land
When I walk into a room, I’m carrying the weight of everyone’s hopes for that day — the practice owner who wants to energise their team. This manager needs a fresh perspective, a team member who’s craving clarity or inspiration.
That’s why I get nervous. Because I’m not just showing up with content — I’m showing up with intent. I want every delegate to leave with something tangible and practical they can use. I want them to feel empowered, encouraged, and equipped to take action when they walk out the door.
And let’s be honest — that takes more than knowledge. That takes heart.
Nerves Aren’t Weakness — They’re Evidence of Passion
Some people think nerves mean you’re unsure or unprepared. But after nearly two decades, I know that’s not true.
I’m nervous because I care deeply about providing people with something of genuine value. I care about every word I speak, every exercise I lead, and every question I pose. I care about making the experience one they’ll remember — not just for the inspiration, but for the tools they take away and the action they’re ready to take.
The Day Isn’t About Me — It’s About Them
It’s not my confidence that matters. It’s their growth. And if feeling a bit nervous helps keep me grounded, tuned in, and fully present for the people I’m there to serve, then
I’ll welcome those nerves every time.